Deciding when it’s time for assisted living is never easy. For many families, it’s a gradual realization that a loved one may need more support than they once did. That could mean they need help with daily tasks, consistent medical attention, or simply a little extra companionship. Recognizing the signs early can make the transition smoother and more positive for everyone involved.
There’s a lot to consider when it comes time to make the transition—and we recommend touring a number of facilities leading up to the transition. We’ll explore the key physical, emotional, and practical indicators that it might be time to move to assisted living.
The Signs
Health Issues: If your parents or loved ones are facing declining health and are unable to manage their daily activities or medical needs independently, it might be time to consider a move to a more supportive environment.
Safety Concerns: If their current living situation poses safety risks, such as difficulty navigating stairs, outdated electrical or plumbing systems, or a neighborhood with a high crime rate, it may be time to explore safer options.
Social Isolation: Loneliness and social isolation can negatively impact mental and emotional well-being. If your parents or loved ones are feeling isolated and have limited social interactions, moving to a community with social activities and support networks may be beneficial.
Financial Challenges: If managing their current home is becoming financially burdensome or if they are struggling to afford necessary services and healthcare, it may be worth considering more affordable living arrangements.
Difficulty with Home Maintenance: If the upkeep of their current home, including yard work, repairs, and maintenance, has become overwhelming or poses physical challenges, it might be time to explore alternatives.
Loss of Independence: If your loved ones are struggling to maintain their independence due to physical or cognitive decline, moving to a setting with varying levels of assistance may provide the support they need.
Doctor’s Recommendations: If their healthcare professionals suggest that a change in living situation would be beneficial for their health and well-being, it’s essential to take their advice into consideration.
Expressed Desire: If your parents or loved ones have expressed a desire to move or have mentioned feeling overwhelmed by their current living situation, it’s crucial to consider their wishes and preferences.
Family Support: If you and your siblings or other family members are unable to provide the necessary support and care, moving to a setting where assistance is readily available may be a sensible option.
Before making any decisions, it’s important to have open and honest conversations with your loved ones about their needs, preferences, and concerns. Consulting healthcare professionals, financial advisors, and other experts can provide value insight and guidance in the decision-making process.
Of course, the decision to move should prioritize the well-being and safety of your loved ones while respecting the autonomy and preferences.
About The Selfhelp Home
The Selfhelp Home is Chicago’s leading nonprofit Continuing Care Retirement Community for Jewish seniors offering all the levels of care from independent living, assisting living, skilled nursing and short-term rehabilitation, all under one roof. Learn more about The Selfhelp Home by contacting us or visiting our website www.selfhelphome.org