By Shari Imbo
In today’s fast-paced world, where technology often takes center stage and generations can sometimes feel worlds apart, finding meaningful ways to connect people of different ages has never been more important. Intergenerational activities, which bring together younger and older alike, offer a unique opportunity to bridge this gap, fostering mutual understanding, respect, and joy. At The Selfhelp Home – A Jewish Senior Living Community located in Chicago, IL, we strive to foster such relationships in a myriad of ways. One of our most popular programs is our “Generations Connected” program where local high school students visit on a monthly basis to engage with our residents. Both our residents and the teens get immense joy from these in-person activities – such as knitting, re-potting plants, performing a Talent Show, decorating Valentine’s Day cookies, and collecting clothing for local chesed “loving-kindness” organizations. Another favorite at The Selfhelp Home is our “Mitzvah Mensch” program where Bat/Bar Mitzvah-aged teens volunteer at our facility for their mitzvah project. We’ve had an exciting array of projects that have featured music and arts & crafts, as well as teens who have created and hosted their own fundraisers!
The Power of Connection
One of the most significant benefits of intergenerational activities is the deep sense of connection they create. For seniors living in assisted living communities such at The Selfhelp Home, these activities provide a wonderful opportunity to engage with younger generations, offering them a fresh perspective on life. Similarly, young people gain invaluable life lessons and wisdom from interacting with older adults, broadening their understanding of the world.
These connections often lead to lasting friendships, where both parties find comfort and joy in each other’s company. The shared experiences and stories exchanged during these activities can help dissolve stereotypes and build bridges of empathy and compassion.
Types of Intergenerational Activities
There are countless ways to bring generations together in meaningful and enjoyable ways. Here are a few ideas that The Selfhelp Home has found to be successful:
1. Storytelling Sessions:
Seniors have a lifetime of experiences and stories to share, and younger generations are often eager listeners. Storytelling sessions allow seniors to share their personal histories, while young participants can ask questions, sparking engaging conversations. One common response we hear consistently from our Mitzvah Mensches is how much they enjoy the stories they hear from our residents. It gives them a new perspective on their own lives and experiences.
2. Arts and Crafts Projects:
Creative activities like painting, knitting, or crafting can be enjoyed by people of all ages. Working together on a project fosters teamwork and provides a tangible sense of accomplishment, which can be especially rewarding for both seniors and youth. One of our recent intergenerational projects is the creation of a Mosaic Mural that now stands in front of our building! Read about it here.
3. Technology Tutoring:
Younger generations, who often excel in the latest technology, can offer tutoring sessions to help seniors navigate smartphones, tablets, and computers. This not only empowers seniors with new skills but also gives younger people a sense of purpose and achievement.
4. Gardening Clubs:
Gardening is a therapeutic activity that can be enjoyed across generations. Younger members can help with the physical aspects of gardening, while seniors share their knowledge about plants and gardening techniques. Together, they can create a beautiful shared space that everyone can enjoy. Every summer, here at The Selfhelp Home we enjoy a weekly outdoor Gardening Club on our newly-renovated Roofdeck Terrace!
5. Music and Dance:
Music and dance are universal languages that transcend age. Hosting intergenerational music and dance events allows participants to share their favorite tunes, teach each other dances, and simply enjoy the rhythm and joy of being together. Check out our calendar of weekly and weekday concerts!
Benefits for All Ages
The benefits of intergenerational activities extend beyond mere entertainment. For seniors, these activities can reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness, which are common in older adults. Engaging with younger people can also bring a renewed sense of purpose and vitality, improving mental and emotional well-being.
For younger participants, intergenerational activities provide an opportunity to learn from the wisdom and experiences of older adults. They also promote empathy, patience, and respect for seniors—values that are essential for building a compassionate society.
Building a Stronger Community
By participating in intergenerational activities, residents of assisted living communities can help create a more inclusive and supportive environment. These activities not only enhance the quality of life for seniors but also strengthen the bonds within the wider community, bringing people of all ages together in a spirit of unity and mutual respect.
At the heart of intergenerational activities is the belief that everyone, regardless of age, has something valuable to contribute. By fostering these connections, we can bridge the gap between generations, enriching lives and building a brighter, more connected future for all.
At The Selfhelp Home we have dedicated staff and volunteers that are committed to creating and enhancing the lives of our residents through intergenerational events and activities. To volunteer, or to learn more about us, please visit us online or contact us directly.
Online: SelfHelpHome.org
Phone: 773.271.0300
Email: [email protected]
Photo: Teens from one of our intergenerational “Generations Connected” programs with a resident.