By Shari Imbo, Marketing & Communications
When a parent transitions to an assisted living community, it can feel like a significant change for both the parent and their family. While these communities are designed to foster independence and provide care, family involvement remains a vital part of a resident’s happiness and well-being. Engaging with parents in meaningful ways can strengthen bonds, maintain connections, and make their experience in assisted living even more enriching. Here at The Selfhelp Home Senior Living Community, we are open 24/7 for visitors, and encourage family members to visit on a regular basis and to join our classes, programs, and events with their parent(s).
Here are some tips and ideas we’ve seen that help families stay connected and engaged with their loved ones:
1. Visit Regularly and Intentionally
Frequent visits show your parent that they are loved and valued. While the frequency of visits depends on your schedule, make them meaningful by giving your full attention during your time together. Engage in their favorite activities, such as playing a game, watching a movie, or simply chatting over tea.
Tip: Schedule visits during their less-busy times to avoid interrupting activities they enjoy.
2. Participate in Community Events
We offer special family events such as “Opera Under the Stars”, and weekly events for all to attend such as professional concerts and art studio and gardening clubs. Attending these programs not only provides quality time with your parent but also gives you a chance to interact with their peers and caregivers, fostering a deeper understanding of their life in the community.
3. Celebrate Special Occasions
Birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays are opportunities to make your parent feel cherished. Bring the celebration to their assisted living community by decorating their space, sharing a meal, or inviting other family members to join. A heartfelt card or flowers can go a long way in brightening their day.
4. Keep Communication Consistent
For times when in-person visits aren’t possible – such as when you are on a business trip – maintain consistent communication through phone calls, video chats, or even handwritten letters. A quick check-in can make your parent feel connected to family, especially if they enjoy hearing about everyday happenings or updates on the grandkids. At The Selfhelp Home, we offer intergenerational programming to encourage the grandkids to stay involved in their grandparent’s lives.
5. Engage in Shared Hobbies
Explore activities your parent enjoys and join them. Whether it’s crafting, gardening, working on puzzles, or reading, shared hobbies create moments of joy and deepen your connection. If they’ve taken up new hobbies at the community, ask them to teach you—it’s a wonderful way to show interest in their life! We currently host a daily Rummikub game that has grown in number over a short amount of time, with both new residents and visiting family members getting involved!
6. Bring the Outside World In
Assisted living communities are vibrant, but your parent may still miss aspects of their previous lifestyle. Bring elements of the outside world into their life by sharing photos, news, or favorite meals from restaurants they love. If possible, take them on outings to familiar places, such as a park, café, or a family member’s home.
7. Involve the Grandchildren
If there are grandchildren, encourage them to spend time with their grandparents. Kids can bring energy and joy to their visits, whether it’s playing games, sharing stories, or working on crafts together. Such interactions often provide emotional boosts for both generations.
8. Encourage Their Independence
While staying engaged is important, it’s equally vital to respect your parent’s independence. Encourage them to participate in the community activities and make friends. Supporting their autonomy helps them feel confident and fulfilled.
Final Thoughts
Engaging with a parent in an assisted living community, such as at The Selfhelp Home is about quality, not just quantity. By staying connected, participating in their lives, and respecting their independence, families can strengthen bonds and create meaningful experiences together.
Remember, your involvement sends a powerful message: no matter where they live, your love and support are unwavering.
At The Selfhelp Home we are dedicated to enhancing the lives of our residents in many ways. We are open 24/7 for visitors! To learn more about us, please visit us online or contact us directly at (773) 271-0300.